Endorsements
Bomnal's story tells of her years in prostitution, and the abuse in childhood that preceded them. But the real story is her insight into how sex industries work, and why men as sex-buyers fuel this trade in female misery. Her vivid writing produces a unique picture of South Korea society over the last four decades in which sexual exploitation accompanied economic success. As a leading feminist and anti-prostitution activist today, Bomnal's story of her survival in the sex trade offers readers a rare and gripping account of global women's condition they will not easily forget.
—Caroline Norma, co-editor of Prostitution Narratives: Stories of Survival in the Sex Trade
Welcome to the world of prostitution in South Korea where “going for a second round” means something different than you might think, where women wait for punters in glass room alleys – and where everyone from the owners of dress stores to STD clinics is on the take. In the face of violence, degradation, and dizzying corruption, Bomnal tells a triumphant story of resilience and courage. A heart-rending and vital testimony about the realities of the prostitution industry and the scars it leaves behind.
—Rose Hunter, author of Body Shell Girl
The basis of the huge worldwide industry of prostitution lies in the sexual enslavement of women for men’s pleasure and profit, and this book describes that reality extremely well. It describes how women in Korea are trapped by debt slavery in a system they cannot leave, but the experiences are common to the industry whether in Korea, Australia, Germany – everywhere that male pimp states tolerate this vicious trade. It describes the extreme physical and mental suffering, loneliness and humiliation. We should all be grateful to Bomnal for detailing her experience in such a devastating way. It explodes the idea that women ‘choose’ this abuse or that it should be seen as a ‘job like any other’. It makes it clear why we need to abolish this form of violence against women.
— Sheila Jeffreys, author of The Idea of Prostitution and Uprooting Male Dominance